Register - Registration is FREE. You need to register in order to place a profile as your registered name is what identifies you in the system and allows us to find your profile for you to edit through the 'My Information' option. Tip:Enter your e-mail address carefully as we send a verification e-mail to check if it's really yours. If you make a mistake, you will not receive it and you will not be able to verify your account.

Login - As a member, you may login either at the entry screen, or on any other page requiring identification. Tip: If you forget your username or password then you can have it resent by clicking on the 'resend password' link under the login box. Enter the e-mail address you registered with and we will send you the details you require.

Searching - There are several criteria upon which you can search. These include the member's age, country of residence, body type, sex and whether the profile includes a photo. If you are a male seeking a female then search for 'Women seeking Men'. If you wish to see only profiles with photos the tick the 'Profiles with pics only' box. You can quickly move through the regions box by pressing the '-' (dash) on your keyboard.

If you wish to find an individual member, you may type their username directly into the 'Username' text box at the bottom of the Search page and click search.

Add Profile - Profiles are FREE to place and are much more fun than simply registering. Our studies found that if you place a profile you will be 5 more times likely to receive a response than if you respond to someone else's profile. You can change or delete your profile at any time through the 'My Profile' option. Tip: Try to keep the size of your photo smaller than 20k or you may have trouble uploading it (depending on your internet connection). Use an image editor to reduce the size of your image by cutting out unnecessary 'white space' and compressing the image.

My Profile - This section lets you delete or edit your profile or change your registration details (if for example you change your main e-mail address). You can also de-register from here and you will no longer receive e-mails from us telling you of updates. 

Chat - The chatroom is for Premium members to communicate on either a personal or community level Click the chat room button on the left-hand menu and the chat room you will automatically be logged into the chat room using your username. Simply enter your message in the blue box and press send to display your message to other users. If you prefer to communicate on a one-to-one basis, double-click the username in the list on the right to display a private chat window that can only be seen by you and the person you are communicating with.

If you feel that something needs to be added to this help page let us know.